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I am 30, but there are still times where I find myself in situations or meet people who make me feel like I am back in highschool. I find too many people are emotional and mentally stuck in highschool. It's like there body kept growing and they physically walked out the school doors, but left the rest of themselves there. I really just want to ask them, "Is highschool is so great that you never want to leave?" If so, I wish I went to your school, because the one that I went to was a hell and I couldn't wait to leave. I genuinely, feel sorry for people who allow their insecurity to keep them in highschool. I think that it is a shame to allow how badly you feel about yourself to behave and treat others badly. Projecting your BS onto others doesn't make you "the most popular kid in school or head cheerleader or Team Captain." All it does is make you the bully. So, I guess what I am saying is if you are 30 and over and are still in highschool, go see the highschool counsellor and get your s*** figured out and graduate. I will personally be there to hold your hand and hug you when you do. It's a rite of passage and growing pains suck. I know, I feel your pain and I look forward to the day that we can grab a coffee and laugh.